• Rishika Chaudhary

How To Meet Someone Without Online Dating?

Some years back an age before the Internet, the only way to meet people was to leave your apartment and interact with humanity. I know it’s a scary thought — leaving your bed, putting your Netflix on pause, and going out to meet people — but that’s just how the world worked. But considering how long the human race existed before the dawn of the Internet and online dating, it looks like meeting people in real life was actually working for them.

I myself have never done the online dating thing. I once signed up on an Online Dating App for a week to write a good reference for my friend (I don’t even know if they do that anymore) so she could seem intriguing to some guy he was stalking, but that was it. I got a few messages that week and it confirmed that the online dating world probably wasn’t the best place for me.


Every person I’ve ever dated, including the man I married, I met in real life. Whether it was a club, work (yes, bad idea, I know), or at one of the many media events that I used to frequent back in my social days (I’m exhausted just thinking about it!), that's how I met people.


Here Are Some Places Where You Can Find Your Perfect Companion:-


Friend’s Birthday Party


Never Ever Miss your friend’s birthday party I must say. I know. Getting up and going out, especially this time of year, seems like cruel and unusual punishment, but if you’re going to meet someone, you have to venture out into the real world. Expanding our social circle, or at the very least, keeping it intact, is very important when you're trying to meet someone.

If You Are Working, Always Use Public Transport


I know you are smiling :), but you can admit that all the attractive people who may be your ideal match will be seen in Public Transports (Of course, this doesn’t mean they’re all single). Next time you see a hot person reading a book you love, consider striking up a conversation with them about it. Making eyes at the cutie across from you the whole ride?

Consider handing them a piece of paper with your number before you get off the train. Sure, it's brave — but it's also a thrill & You will feel like a Reel Life Hero...


Get A Dog


As a person who loves dogs more than humans, I’m not suggesting that dogs are some sort of accessory. What they are are magical, furry gifts that, if you have the time, not only make you a happier person but get you hitting up the dog park.


That right there is opening you up to meeting new people. It’s amazing how many times my dog, has been a conversation starter.


Become A Regular Customer of Your Fav Place


Back when I used to drink Coffee like every day was my last day on earth, I was one of a dozen regulars at a cafe, and it was a great way to meet people. There’s something about being a fixture in someplace you’re comfortable (that isn’t your home) that gives you the confidence to talk to people. You can ask them out for a coffee or for a movie or other outing.


Find your favorite cafe, bar, bookstore, restaurant, or place to listen to live music and see how it feels to become a regular.

Gym Is The Best Place


If you are a fitness freak so this is the best place for you, Gym offers you many of the same opportunities found in going to the park when searching for dating candidates, albeit with a greater focus on physical improvement and without any potential issues if you have allergies to the outdoors.


Just remember to keep any competitive streak in check unless that happens to be the sort of personality you would prefer; you do not want to sour someone's interest because you show more concern for your workout than flirting.


You Have To Be Religious Now!


I know you are not religious but you can find New People (or you can say that a perfect companion) in religious places as well!! Dating is a means of socializing and meeting others, places of worship are natural venues worth considering, especially if you regularly attend services. Anyone you meet at these places is bound to have a similar outlook on life and the regularity of worship does wonder for raising your propinquity with a potential suitor.

Even if you lack options, you may be able to snag a few blind dates through other members of the congregation who know you are single.

Even if you lack options, you may be able to snag a few blind dates through other members of the congregation who know you are single.


I Hope This Will Help You!



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