• Neha Agarwal

How To Find The Perfect Date Online?

Like begets like. Rather than look for the perfect date online, focus on being the perfect one and all your dream dates will flock over to you. Here's what you should look for in a perfect date after you have perfected being one.

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Manners


Manners are the best way to achieve a lasting impression. As a society, we have greatly underestimated the power of a first impression. Do the first few moments really matter that much? Yes, they actually do. Certainly, we can overcome a bad first impression but why not try our best to be impressive from the beginning?

  • Skip the cursing.

  • Say please.

  • Say thank you!

  • Laugh using emoticons if you think something is funny.

  • Be nice. You are never too cool to be nice.

Pay attention


We live in a heavily distracted society so paying attention to the person you are talking to is very much a novelty. When speaking to them over text or call, be all ears. Listen to their stories and pay heed to what they have to say. Genuinely be interested in learning more about them. If you meet in person, do not pick up your phone while you are on your date. Leave it in your purse or in your pocket. Do not look at your phone while you are on a date. Watch what topics make their eyes go wide, see what jokes make them laugh and genuinely enjoy the company of the person sitting next to you.


Say what you mean


Be genuine and say what you’re thinking but, with tact. If you are really loving having a conversation with someone, ask them to get coffee with you. But, if someone asks you to get coffee and you don’t want to, excuse yourself. Other people are attracted to people because they are wholly and completely being themselves.


Smile


A smiling display picture works like a charm. Plant a big, huge smile across your face and click a picture. If you have no other reason to smile, smile just for the fact that life is good because you are about to find someone who wants to spend time with you. It goes further than absolutely anything else.


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